A prostate massage may not always have a sexual starting point; often a prostate massage can alleviate any problems with the prostate or even bring the problems to a close. A massage also helps with problems with urination, as the cause is often an enlarged prostate.
The prostate is the prostate of the man. As an exocrine gland, it does not release its secretions into the bloodstream but into the vas deferens. The prostate is located directly under the bladder and has about the size and shape of a chestnut. It can be reached through the urethra or through the rectum – the anal examination method being far more comfortable. You should also be aware of what does prostate stimulation feel like?
Symptoms of Enlarged Prostate
With advancing age, the prostate can enlarge – however, the disease can also affect younger men. An enlarged prostate can lead to problems with urination or erectile dysfunction. Other symptoms of an enlarged prostate may include:
- Weak urine stream, little “pressure on the line”
- Urination is only possible in stages
- Constant feeling of a full bladder, continuous urge to urinate
- Frequent toilet visits – during the day as well as at night
- Incontinence, involuntary urination
- Burning or pain when urinating
The symptoms listed may also be indicative of a serious illness, so it is advisable to see a doctor if one or more symptoms persist. Because an enlargement of the prostate is in most cases, but not always, benign.
More about enlarged prostate by WebMD.
Where exactly does the Prostate Sit?
In theory it seems easy – but where exactly does the prostate sit? As mentioned above, the prostate sits directly under the bladder and is bounded by the intestine to the rear and the pubic syphilis to the front. The easiest way to reach the prostate through the anus, because it is located about 3-5 cm behind the intestinal exit. Properly stimulated and massaged, the prostate can trigger ultimate orgasms that cannot be compared to a “normal” orgasm, because it is not for nothing that the prostate is called the man’s G-spot.
However, many men are reluctant to try a prostate massage because of the prevailing opinion that anal sex is only for homosexuals – what a fatal miscalculation! Because actually, most men know it very well – anal sex is incredibly fun and is a really very exciting and sexy sexual variety. Most men have already had anal sex, of course, with a woman. And that’s perfectly fine, but please do not come to the male anus – no dildo and no plug.
Prostate Massage and Anal Sex
After all, men do not need such a thing – they are the active part and not the passive one. Even the thought of it makes some men terrified, and not because they are afraid of possible pain, on the contrary. It is the thought that one could enjoy being filled in and feeling something in oneself. But that’s fine. It does not mean anything if you like anal sex, except that you broaden your horizons and are able to experience orgasms that you used to dream of. At the same time you train the prostate and thus reduce the risk of prostate disease or relieve existing complaints.
At the Beginning: A small Prostate Stimulator or just a Finger
The prostate can be massaged independently by a stimulator, but more beautiful and exciting is the massage by the partner. The easiest way is to feel the prostate first with your finger. So you can slowly approach and develop a better sense of pressure and speed of massage.
With a thorough personal hygiene a flushing of the intestine is not necessary before, however, we carry many aids in our assortment, if an anal rinse nevertheless desired. Alternatively, the partner can also put on a latex glove. It is important that everyone involved is relaxed and comfortable at all times.
The use of a high quality anal lubricant enhances stimulation. Please be sure to use a lubricant especially for anal use. These lubricants differ in consistency from conventional lubricants because they are not so watery and therefore stay on the skin for longer, because they cannot absorb so quickly.
It does not always have to be the doggy style. At the beginning, it is best to lie relaxed and comfortable on one side and to bend the upper leg. Entrust your wishes to your partner and give clear instructions. Alternatively, it is a good idea if both partners read this guide thoroughly. Lie relaxed and breathe deeply and evenly.
First distribute some lubricant in the hands to warm up. If the lubricant is lukewarm, it is carefully distributed between the anus and the testicles (dam). Take enough time now – at least 10 minutes – and massage and caress the sensitive area around the anus, the perineum and the buttocks.
Slowly approach the anus and intensify the massage directly around the anus. Swipe in different directions and take your time. Now press gently on the opening, again and again. Carefully press and release. You will notice a change soon, because you will be “let in”. Be very careful!
As the finger gradually penetrates deeper, do not move it. This will allow you to get past the sphincter without major problems or even pain. Take about 1-3 minutes to calm down, so that your partner can get used to the new feeling. Now move your finger slowly and calmly. Try circular movements, as well as back and forth.
Quickly you will notice how relaxing and stimulating a prostate massage can be – and how well it does! With a prostate massage, the blood flow into the pelvic floor area is strengthened, enabling a stronger and longer-lasting erection. This can also intensify orgasm – especially if the prostate is massaged during the act. Overcome your inhibitions and let it happen! A whole new world of pleasure and sensual pleasures awaits you! The prostate sits, as mentioned above, about 3-5 cm behind the intestinal exit in the direction of the abdominal wall and feels small, smooth and firm. Carefully press for a chestnut-sized, smooth and firm area. Once the prostate is found, you can never be wrong again.
Touch the prostate carefully. It may feel a bit novel or surprising, but you will get used to it quickly. Do you talk about preferences, does he like circular movements? Remember not to overdo it the first few times and only stay with a short massage.
Pull out your finger slowly and carefully. With time and a little practice, you can start to incorporate different love toys into your erotic game, such as butt plugs or anal vibrators. It is important that they feel comfortable at all times. Expand your horizons and experience sensual pleasures and ultimate highlights.
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The Matching Prostate Vibrator
At the beginning, a smaller prostate stimulator or vibrator is recommended. Use plenty of lubricant and proceed with care. If you’re new to prostate stimulation and feel a bit unsure, you should start with a stimulator that does not vibrate – or turn the vibration off the first few times. The powerful vibrations of a vibrator can feel uncomfortable in the beginning, you have to get used to it. Because the prostate is not an erogenous zone per se, the most beautiful feelings arise only when an erotic and sensual mood is reached. If a vibrator is introduced too early, especially for newcomers, it may mean that you may never feel like having anal sex again. And that would really be a loss in your love life.